根に持つ (ne ni motsu): Meaning | 英訳

Definition

根に持つ literally means ‘have (something) at the root’. Figuratively it means you hold on to a bad memory about someone for a long time. A similar English expression is probably “to hold a grudge (against someone)”, but the tone of “根に持つ” can be lighter, more trivial and less serious than that.

Usage

（〜を）根に持つ “hold a grudge (against/about ~)”

It’s often used as “根に持っている” meaning “be/have been remembering/holding a grudge”

Example

3年前(ねんまえ)、彼(かれ)が私(わたし)のメッセージを無視（むし）したことをまだ根に持っている
I still remember (and am annoyed) that he ignored my message three years ago.

Related Word

Synonym

恨みがある: hold a grudge (sounds more serious than 根に持つ)

Antonym

引(ひ)きずらない: don’t dwell on ~ (in the past)

すぐに忘(わす)れる: forget soon/easily

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